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Fight the Blues

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Fight the Blues

{Emerald Bay, South Lake Tahoe}

I’ve written about the subject of laziness several times in my blog (here, here, and here), and this week has been exceptionally rough to get through.  I attribute my dysphoria to a combination of factors: mental exhaustion (struggling with recent loss that I wrote about here, weekly sessions with my therapist exploring the origins of my overwhelmingly self-critical tendencies), the weather changes (hello, hibernation mode), and the upcoming holidays.  Rather than writing a deeply emotional post, I felt it would be appropriate given my current mood to instead write about 3 things I did this week to combat the seasonal blues.  I may be a psychiatrist who inherently gives advice, but I seriously learn a lot from my patients and others.  Would love to hear about any techniques you apply to prevent from feeling down this time of year as well!

1.  Write a simple to-do list.  I used to be overly-ambitious with my lists, but that just left me feeling worse and unaccomplished if I couldn’t get everything done.  This week, I listed 3 mandatory responsibilities plus a few smaller, easier tasks (yes, I even listed getting the mail as a task and felt great when I checked it off my list!).

2.  Get moving.  Though the couch and Netflix seem far more appealing than going to the gym, I struck a balance by going out for a quick jog.  Even a 15 minute run helped provide some exercise and made me feel less isolated.

3.  Schedule an activity with a friend..and don’t flake!  When I have something planned, I hold myself more accountable and am less likely to cancel, especially if it’s with a friend.  Even something as simple as putting on makeup for an outing made me feel more like my usual self again.

Thought of the Day:  What different techniques do you utilize and find helpful?

 

November 20, 2014 8 comments
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Thankful Thursdays

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Thankful Thursdays

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Malibu Beach

People who meet me tend to perceive me as a positive person, but I’ll admit that I wasn’t always that way.  I was quite the complainer growing up and blamed others if things didn’t go my way.  My negativity improved through maturation over time, but my four years of psychiatric residency training certainly helped me become more self-aware. Learning about different psychotherapy techniques sharpened my skills even further, and one modality that I use involves Positive Psychotherapy.

What is Positive Psychotherapy (PPT)?

In a nutshell, Dr. Martin E.P. Seligman spearheaded the development and research of PPT as an intervention for treatment of depression and the theory consists of some of the following concepts:

– focus on the POSITIVE (factors that contribute to happiness and build upon one’s strengths)

– build POSITIVE EMOTIONS (about the past, present, and future)

– identify and utilize your STRENGTHS

  • for example, if you’re a creative person, do things that bring out your creativity (such as writing, photography, etc).  If you’re competitive, consider joining a recreational group or league

–  instead of letting your strengths and talents go to waste, apply them towards something MEANINGFUL (such as in your job, community, family, religious institution, etc)

Naturally, this can take a lot of work/effort especially since our minds may automatically take us down a negative spiral in the face of challenge and negativity.  With our often stressful and hectic lives, when something goes wrong, it seems like it requires more time and energy to switch to a positive mindframe.  With that in mind, Seligman’s team developed a series of exercises to help shift your mind towards more positive thinking, one of which includes listing “3 good things” that went well during your day.

So, with a slight twist and in the spirit of PPT, I created a new series on my blog called “Thankful Thursdays” where I will list 3 things I’m thankful for from the week and I encourage all of you to do the same!

Here’s my list from this week:

1.  Took advantage of living a few miles away from the beach and spent some time there to escape the triple digit California heat wave (picture above).

2.  I’m thankful for my family stopping by my office to visit and instead of my usual routine of going home to check email and watch tv, I enjoyed quality time with them over a delicious meal.

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Dinner in West Hollywood

3.  Received a “sign” today which steered me in a different direction regarding a work project.  I truly believe that when one door closes, another one opens, so I’m staying focused and optimistic!

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On a boat in South Lake Tahoe

What 3 things are you thankful for?

References:

Seligman, M. E. P., Rashid, T., & Parks, A.C. (2006). Positive psychotherapy. American Psychologist, 61, 774-778.

Photo Credits: Marlon Santos (Diamond Reel Media), Alex Manipod

Disclaimer: this post describes one therapeutic technique and should not be used to replace treatment with your primary clinicians

September 18, 2014 9 comments
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